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aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae

probably the 4chan screenshot memes

Or that one dude whose life really did sort of get taken over by their MLP tulpa

5:31 PM

For like a year

5:31 PM

(Allegedly)

Koomer and Oguigi?

Yup

They were definitely the exception rather than the rule, unless everyone else with a similar situation never talked about it publicly.

guys i think they got their info from the villians wiki

Milk

Or that one dude whose life really did sort of get taken over by their MLP tulpa

he was using drugs and wanted to avoid his life aswell, plus, after reading it was more the intrusive creatures haunting them than just oguigi, however she did contribute to the madness (edited)

Kurt

is it she (tulpa) or it’s just my mind ?

it's whatever you consider it to be if you're starting out, it's really that simple

savedlatin

he was using drugs and wanted to avoid his life aswell, plus, after reading it was more the intrusive creatures haunting them than just oguigi, however she did contribute to the madness (edited)

Yeah it was a bad mix of contributing factors. But people will overlook that for the sensationalism of “mlp tulpa took over my life” (not clickbait)

either way, 4chan is weird in general so why would they let a post from there set their beliefs? Stick_slam

they should’ve researched more..

the tulpa wont feel super alien and weird since answers come to your mind like any other thoughts, you just need to learn to think of them as someone different while filtering out random thoughts that dont fit

aapeli 🟣🥫🥔 ae

it's whatever you consider it to be if you're starting out, it's really that simple

I don't know, but it was very unexpected, although I tend to believe that she hears and understands me and also looking for ways to interact with me, I hope it was her

well then it was her

5:36 PM

if its unexpected and you didnt decide to consciously do it yourself

wow, thank you HYPERSL

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when i started it felt like my thoughts, but the answers came quickly and seemed completely random at first so i just decided thats her, and then those answers slowly became more coherent and consistent

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5:38 PM

i had some unexpected things happen like weird sensations when i doubted a little bit

5:39 PM

and those just reinforced my beliefs that its not just me talking to myself

i used to be worried that i was just. parroting, but then when i paid more attention to the responses my tulpa gave instead of fretting about it just being me, it became more apparent that it was my tulpa speaking

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i thought that its essentially my thoughts somehow copying itself like a cell and slowly becoming separate, so of course theres a period where it seems like a copy of me, but it started getting different

and I just conduct monologues and try to involve her in interaction, asking what she thinks, how to relate, and so on

you might want to ask stuff that can be answered with single words

5:43 PM

thats how we started too

like yes/no questions ?

yeah

5:43 PM

their opinions and answers dont really have any thought behind them at first and its ok

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5:44 PM

the answers just come out of nowhere, but over time it evolves

Alternatively ask them to elaborate on their answers, encourage them to think more coherently

yeah

5:45 PM

opinions arent super fleshed out either since those require life experience

i searched a lot of information on websites, read guides but it’s more interesting to know about the way u’ve passed as a host, it seems to me the most correct way to understand all of this

so their favorite things might change a lot or seem completely arbitrary

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maybe someone could tell me who u begin ?

Yuka

Alternatively ask them to elaborate on their answers, encourage them to think more coherently

am i the only one that gets sentence fragments rather than full sentences?

i just talked when going to bed and asked stuff and answers came before i even finished asking

You're not the only one, but you can get past that issue

Yuka

You're not the only one, but you can get past that issue

how can i go about it?

theres no magic secret techniques, just talk and listen for answers and dont think too much

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So when you think a full sentence what is it like? Your tulpa will have to do the same to finish their sentences

Yeah they will start speaking more the more you expect them to speak : )

try to come up with practical solutions to stuff and try to think what they would like to talk about etc

thank you

You'll feel their thinking, but that's okay

if you feel like you're stopping to "think for them" and then they answer with something more complicated, it was them stopping to think

5:48 PM

yeah

5:48 PM

that feels like you at first too

that makes a lot of sense!

but the thinking part might feel a little different

5:49 PM

even body language might bleed out and thats a really good sign

5:49 PM

thats how it went for us

5:50 PM

you will probably doubt that its just you acting like your tulpa but its not

Kitt says things I would never dream up sometimes. Or things I don’t want to hear or accept but need to. I take that as a good sign it’s not just me parroting

How many of y’all are working on parallel processing ? What are you guys doing to work on it?

what’s parallel processing?

similar to parallel parking

Deleted User

what’s parallel processing?

To my understanding it’s when you and your tulpa have distinctive trains of thoughts/emotions etc. more isolated abilities to think without the other “overhearing”

8:49 PM

So doing the brain thing in parallel to each other as opposed to it being enmeshed

ohhhhh

Deleted User

what’s parallel processing?

cough cough ~~bullshit~~ (edited)

Khaos claims to experience it Do you think they're lying? /gen

making stuff up doesn't mean lying

10:05 PM

tulpamancy, wonderlanding, inner lore etc is a creative project

i mean we technically can be actively doing things in both headspace and real life, so i dont think its bullshit. i think its heavily impractical because its basically splitting our brainpower in half and neither of us are exactly functioning well in either (edited)

Kei Wendt

Khaos claims to experience it Do you think they're lying? /gen

Yes

Fair enough

when you write a story that never happened, do you lie?

Depends on the context

in this context, i would say that a tulpa can be simply wrong

You mean tulpamancy in general or what?

no i mean a tulpa saying they've been around for years when they weren't

That is just an intrusive thought

10:12 PM

Those thoughts can be anything

which are just wrong, not a lie

An intrusive thought can’t lie because it’s not a person

i mean the case where kei's tulpa says they have been around for years

10:13 PM

i wouldn't call them a liar

I mean There's evidence that they have been around for a while I would dissociate and then "i" would do something totally out of character, and then remember it sorta the way i remember dreams And it was in character for one of my headmates to do what i did while dissociated

If you have zero evidence of them existing beforehand then it is a lie that your brain made up and you and the tulpa both just reenforced it together without looking too deeply into it. A tulpa can’t exist in the background for years without anyone knowing

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I hope i'm not accidentally making it up though My biggest fear is that my headmates aren't real in the way i thought they were and that i've just been making it up

Kei Wendt

I mean There's evidence that they have been around for a while I would dissociate and then "i" would do something totally out of character, and then remember it sorta the way i remember dreams And it was in character for one of my headmates to do what i did while dissociated

That’s not tulpa behavior

10:16 PM

If that’s real then I wouldn’t call that headmate a tulpa

Kei Wendt

I mean There's evidence that they have been around for a while I would dissociate and then "i" would do something totally out of character, and then remember it sorta the way i remember dreams And it was in character for one of my headmates to do what i did while dissociated

retrospective narrative

10:16 PM

depersonalisation/derealisation makes you disown an experience. later it is ups for grabs for any headmate

Rusty

If that’s real then I wouldn’t call that headmate a tulpa

That's how we switch still All of us I dissociate, and then after they're done fronting i remember it like it was a dream

KiTkAT( •̀ .̫ •́ )✧/jk

depersonalisation/derealisation makes you disown an experience. later it is ups for grabs for any headmate

Oh...

it's much easier for a headmate to claim the experience you disowned by dissociating

I see

10:18 PM

I thought tulpas couldn't be harmful though And james was quite nasty to me when he revealed himself

10:18 PM

Nasty to himself, too

when you learn tulpamancy, your brain will start sticking "tulpa" label to things you wouldn't call a tulpa otherwise, and the tulpa develops and claims that part of your mind some people have their inner critic turned into a tulpa, an intrusive thought, self-hatred, or other parts of what jung would call shadow (edited)

Oh...

persecutors etc is not did-specific thing

I feel bad for thinking i possibly had osdd then That must not be the case I'm really confused though

yeahh seeking labels can lead to confusion

10:22 PM

alternative: just take your experience as what it is, without the need to categorise every element of it

The reason i was seeking an osdd diagnosis is because of my negative experiences that aligned with the symptoms Was that a mistake?

one thing you might consider is that your treatment would look the same regardless of having osdd diagnosis or not, if you have symptoms and they are caused by osdd or something else, the treatment is the same

That is true I sorta need a diagnosis to continue treatment though because nobody in manitoba bar a few specialists know how to work with dissociative disorders, so i need something to be able to see a specialist I don't know what to do anymore tbh and i think i might have messed everything up thinking i had osdd and not tulpas